Is the Money Really for the Child?
- Detective N
- Apr 10
- 2 min read
Updated: Jun 26
When You Send Support to Thailand but Start to Wonder…
You want to do the right thing.You care about your child in Thailand, even if you're far away. You send money—monthly, generously, without fail—because you were told it's for food, school, medicine, or clothing.
But over time, something doesn't feel right.She sends fewer updates. No receipts. No photos. Suddenly, she’s unavailable. You wonder:
Is the money really going to the child? Or is it funding something else entirely?
At Orchid Eyes, we've heard this story many times—and we’re here to help you find out the truth.

When Promises Don’t Match Reality
Many foreign fathers send child support or voluntary payments to Thai women they once dated or lived with. Some never ask questions—until:
The child never appears in photos
The mother suddenly has a new phone, bike, or boyfriend
Requests for proof are met with silence or anger
You find out she’s asking multiple men for support
It's painful to suspect deception, especially when a child may be involved. But it's not wrong to want transparency.
What We Can Do
Orchid Eyes provides discreet, ethical, and professional services to help clarify:
Is the child actually living with the mother?
Are the funds used for the child’s wellbeing—or for other purposes?
Who else is involved in the situation—new partners, relatives, or even other "sponsors"?
What is the child’s real living environment and schooling situation?
We conduct on-the-ground verifications, including:
Site visits (residence, school, neighborhood)
Observation of daily routines
Interviews with discretion (when appropriate)
Gathering photo/video evidence
Summary reports for legal or personal use
Our team includes local Thai professionals who understand cultural nuances and know how to navigate sensitive situations.
You Deserve Clarity
Sending money out of love and responsibility is honorable. But that trust should never be abused. Whether you're providing support by agreement or court order, you have the right to know how that support is used—especially when it concerns a child.
Orchid Eyes – discreet truthfinding in Thailand. Because peace of mind has no borders.